Posted by The Lady on November 01, 2003 at 16:21:47:In Reply to: Help posted by Lynda Lavin on October 27, 2003 at 20:00:41:
honey, See a lawyer, Adultry is in your court. Don't be abusive,verbally, document everything. Be quiet, calm, and be like the cat....pounce when it is time. I hope you do not have kids. Make sure you don't yell, accuse, or try to figure him out. He has made the choice dear, and this is about you now. Make a time line of what you need to do, he is feeding off your vulnerability, he made the choice.
Car, is yours, not a judge in the world would take it. IF you have letters or proof of his mistress, take it to the next step, and seek legal council.Good luck, and remember, strong women, are made of experiences like these.
I am SO sorry.